Some days can feel challenging, like navigating through a storm.Things happen that are not always in our control. I mean let’s be honest, we all wish we could control everything in our life…but never seem to be able to.
I've been told repeatedly that I'm too nice, too kind to others. While meant as a compliment, these words can sting. They imply that my kindness is somehow excessive or misplaced. But to me, being compassionate and considerate is simply the norm – it's how I strive to move through the world.
I don't view myself as extraordinarily kind or overly nice; I'm just an ordinary person trying to live with integrity. Yet, this approach can sometimes feel frustrating when I experience unkindness, exploitation, or lack of appreciation in return. In those moments, I do sometimes question if I should change, become more guarded or self-interested.
But every time I explore altering my authentic nature, I feel drained and unsettled, unable to find an alternative path that resonates deeply. Ultimately, I realize that being a kind person isn't a burden; it's a gift that enriches my life and the lives of those around me.
While it's true that kindness can sometimes be taken for granted, it's also a superpower that can positively influence others and create waves of goodness in the world. Being kind doesn't make me weak or naive; it gives me the strength to stay true to my values, even when faced with adversity.
So, yes, there are moments when the challenges of being a kind person feel overwhelming. But those difficulties pale in comparison to the joy, fulfillment, and sense of purpose that come from living with authenticity, empathy, and compassion.
In a world that can often feel harsh and unforgiving, choosing to be your authentic self can also feel like an act of courage and resilience. It's a path that may not always be easy, but it's one that ultimately leads to a life well-lived – a life filled with richness, meaning, and the knowledge that we've made a positive impact on those around us.